There's nothing more frustrating than sitting watching the world get engaged, travel or just generally move on. Whilst, your sat in your room, feeling low and generally eating yourself into a coma. With you're best friends Ben and Jerry: possibly the only men your need in your life, right ? The idea of the 'tomorrow' we've all been dreaming off, sounds a dream to all.
I get it. No boyfriend, no signs of adult hood and barely keeping down a low paid job. It sucks. This unbelievable feeling seems to be hitting most sing 18-27 year old's across the UK. Well guys, girls and who ever else is listening don't your not on your own.
Some times you have to take the bull by the horns.
'Don't need a man to be a Queen' - Anon.
What are you doing right now, other than reading? Do you love your job? Are you going on the trip you've always wanted to take ? No? Don't fret, your breathing your here, in the moment. So start living in it. By all means this is not self help blog, I can barely help myself in a day to day scenario, but why are we all so scared to do the personal things we want to do?
This month I challenge you to do one thing for you and trust me it will help get you out of your little funk. So go on, book that trip, look for a new job. It's never too late.
Do I do as I preach?
Many of you may feel like this is silly but I recently went to a psychic, currently I'm torn with which path my lifes going in. It has always been a personal goal of mine to go and see some one who communicates with others that aren't here anymore (if you don't believe in this just bare with me), yet I never thought I was strong enough to do it. But I did.
Personally my goals are still in motion for this year. Maybe the diets hasn't gone to plan but I am giving it a go, its always hard when somethings changing, life's never easy but surely that's how you know the good from the bad ?
My debt is well under way for being paid off a soon as financially possible, my social life is proof of that! I have currently been working, sleeping and working a little more. I will get there in the end.
Pass my driving test. Yeap, that's still to do...
In the process of all of this i have added a monthly goal to my list of goals for 2016, having more me time. This is incredibly important as whilst your aiming for something you can get lost in the process of it all. Having a night or a day a week will always allow for growth within yourself a little time out to clear your head with your favorite book, film or wine, will always rejuvenate you.
Hope this helps a little.
Em x